That's how it works
Time passes by....
And we are all getting older and by that, we are getting mature enough to face the problems, and by being mature we are starting things profoundly; we try to deal more with people in a more sensible way. We get better at handling things because we always learn from our experience, the best teacher in our life is the experience (for me), the experience is just an instrument for us to be braver and better. Growing old is hard but adapting the change is harder.
These things are inevitable, which means we meet many people throughout our lives, many of them we don’t really make a connection with and even if we try our best not to show them that, it’s inevitable to have arguments, break someone’s heart, lose a friend, or else. If you don’t do it, someone else will do it to you. That’s just how relationships work, you really can't please someone to stay with you, if he/she wants to leave then let it be.
Stop being weak because you're facing a problem, it's okay to be weak sometimes. Yah! Alam ko kahit ako kapag may problema, I mean lahat naman siguro tayo kapag may problema talagang nagiging weak, and the only thing that gives us strengths is God and pray. I think being weak every now and then is nasa nature na natin right? You know guys, we need weakness in our life din pala, come to think of it, how would you know the things that will give you strengths if we don't have the weakness? We need that in order to know what strength is, and it’s a chance we’re given to overcome that weakness. But don’t feel bad about that. Don’t create a comfort zone that will make you feel better. As eventually, that becomes your weakness too.
Why can't just things go back to how they were? Because as time changes, people change, our perspective change and the world changes with it. Without change, people will not understand the value and worth. Sabi nga nila diba "nasa huli ang pagsisisi" kapag may nawala or nagbago dyan natin malalaman yung halaga nila, sa pag alis nila may bago tayong natututunan, at sa susunod alam na nating pahalagaan.
Life can be a bit cruel at times, but I still believe that things do happen for a reason. Nothing is permanent in this world, lahat may hangganan, mamaya masaya suddenly malulungkot ka. Nasayo na nga, babawiin pa.
We have to accept that some things/people are not meant to stay in our lives, this is why you can not blame someone or yourself why things have happened this and that, it's life's choice. We can not stay to a single condition for so long. We need to move on and move forward.
"Nothing happens until some things move"
-Albert Einstein
